Live all you can—it's a mistake not to. It doesn't so much matter what you do in particular, so long as you have your life. If you haven't had that, what have you had?
(Henry James 1843 / 1916)
Conquistada que estou pela biografia escrita por Colm Tóibín, que recomendo vivamente, espelha a frase escolhida os meus votos para este ano. Have your own life. Nothing is as important as that ;)